Taking an interest in her life, job or anything else that she likes to talk about is a must for first date conversations. You can do that by asking questions like, “How did your job/hobby/interest start?” 在初次约会的时候，聊聊她的生活、工作之类她乐意聊的话题是必须的。你可以用“你的工作、爱好、兴趣是怎么开始的呀?”作为开头。